hey sorry to hear about your girlfriend troubles...I too know of incompetent doctors, I remember when my mother was treated for cancer, they dug out the cancer then placed her on kemo (this was awhile back before they developed the medicine that will allow you to keep your food without vomiting it up) well after 6 months on kemo she went from 110lbs 69 year old woman down to 58 pound waifth and then her body just shut down and she went into a coma and couple of days later she died, the doctors all 5 of them told me and my brother that they dont know what happen to her, I stood up and looked them right in the eye and said "Its as plain as the nose on your face, after starving for 6 months of kemo and loosing all that weight, her body couldnt take it and just shut down!" they just looked at me like I was an incompoop! since then I have seen other doctores treating my friends and fucking up right and left... I think it all boils down to this: years ago when I was young doctors for the most case went into medicine because they wanted to help people, now the majority of them in my opinion go into it strictly for the money, and when you have that attitude you start to fuck up, think about when the last time you went to see your doctor, a nurse took care of most of the visit and then you might have seen the doctor for 1 or 2 minutes he was in a out...there is a certain number of patients he should see a day, but cause he's greedy he will double, or triple or even quadriple that number so he can get more money...I still remember the good ole days when your doctor would come in a actually talk to you instead of ask one or two questions read a chart right quick, then leave sending in a nurse...you get the picture...